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Over 40? The 10 steps to FINALLY doing the work that’s JUST right for you by: Craig Nathason
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| Wednesday, November 5, 2008 |
P is perfect for: Goal
What about life? How will you make a difference in the world? Your goal drives on your behavior and can provide you with daily energy and happiness. What is the purpose of your life? Think deeply about where you would like to make a contribution in the world.
Does laughter make to you? How about food for others? It may be helping others to become physically fit. It is perhaps help provide a service that helps people stay organized. Your goal is personal. No one will really care except the most important person in the world - YOU. Having a goal will change your life and give you the direction you want.
P is perfect for: Price
What is most important to you? What behaviors you to follow each day to be true to yourself? What you have to do every day to not follow what is most important to you? The choice is yours.
Watch your daily activities. Do you spend your time on what is most important to you? Is your work align with what is most important to you? Is your work a natural alignment of your abilities and your interests?
Living life through others and their values will leave you feeling of control and stagnation. Living life through this award will give more meaning to your life, and give you a sense of accomplishment.
P is for perfect: Perspective
Others have views on you. What's more important is the prospect that you have yourself.
You can change the perceptions that are not helpful for you longer. What is your perspective of the world?
How do you feel about yourself? Where did they come from feelings? Can you replace those feelings with new ideas that are most useful at this time?
What we focus on what we get. If you stopped to think about what does not, you can not attract more in your life. Instead, focus on what you want for your work. Find others who are doing exactly what you want. Talk to them; study. If they can do, you too.
P is perfect for: Opportunities
What is possible for you in your life? So many of us concentrate instead on what is impossible. What you need to do to start thinking more things are possible for you?
Opportunities to start with you. If you really think you want something is not possible, you can not go to it. On the other hand, begin to believe what you want is possible, and find a new energy to go towards what you want.
Give you proof that what you want is possible and real. The mind can not tell the difference between what is real and what is imagined, thinking in the future.
Make sure that you focus on what is good for you.
P is perfect for: Place
What is your role in the world? In your heart, what is the vision you have for yourself? What are your abilities and your interests? Are they?
Is your current job something you can really do for the rest of your life?
If not, you must change. The only people who retire, are people who do not love what they do. Most people dream of retirement, and then when they get there, they are bored and depressed, and they die after too many years.
The solution?
Finding work, now that you can enjoy until you stop breathing. Many financial experts now will help you make a financial plan that covers 100 years. That is a lot of years, and if you are between 40 and 50, almost half of your life for you!
Time for a change if you do your work is over.
P is perfect for: Position
What is your attitude on a daily basis? What do you want to change, and why? What small steps could you take now to "try" a new position every day?
Is your work put a smile on your face every day?
Would you pinch because you can not believe you actually make a living doing what you love? If this is not true for you, it is time for change!
Yes, you can choose to have a good attitude for a bad job for some time. But you do wrong, and it will not last long.
P is perfect for: Price
What is most important to you? What behaviors you to follow each day to be true to yourself? What you have to do every day to not follow what is most important to you? The choice is yours.
Watch your daily activities. Do you spend your time on what is most important to you? Is your work align with what is most important to you? Is your work a natural alignment of your abilities and your interests?
Living life through others and their values will leave you feeling of control and stagnation. Living life through this award will give more meaning to your life, and give you a sense of accomplishment.
P is for perfect: Perspective
Others have views on you. What's more important is the prospect that you have yourself.
You can change the perceptions that are not helpful for you longer. What is your perspective of the world?
How do you feel about yourself? Where did they come from feelings? Can you replace those feelings with new ideas that are most useful at this time?
What we focus on what we get. If you stopped to think about what does not, you can not attract more in your life. Instead, focus on what you want for your work. Find others who are doing exactly what you want. Talk to them; study. If they can do, you too.
P is perfect for: Opportunities
What is possible for you in your life? So many of us concentrate instead on what is impossible. What you need to do to start thinking more things are possible for you?
Opportunities to start with you. If you really think you want something is not possible, you can not go to it. On the other hand, begin to believe what you want is possible, and find a new energy to go towards what you want.
Give you proof that what you want is possible and real. The mind can not tell the difference between what is real and what is imagined, thinking in the future.
Make sure that you focus on what is good for you.
P is perfect for: Place
What is your role in the world? In your heart, what is the vision you have for yourself? What are your abilities and your interests? Are they?
Is your current job something you can really do for the rest of your life?
If not, you must change. The only people who retire, are people who do not love what they do. Most people dream of retirement, and then when they get there, they are bored and depressed, and they die after too many years.
The solution?
Finding work, now that you can enjoy until you stop breathing. Many financial experts now will help you make a financial plan that covers 100 years. That is a lot of years, and if you are between 40 and 50, almost half of your life for you!
Time for a change if you do your work is over.
P is perfect for: Position
What is your attitude on a daily basis? What do you want to change, and why? What small steps could you take now to "try" a new position every day?
Is your work put a smile on your face every day?
Would you pinch because you can not believe you actually make a living doing what you love? If this is not true for you, it is time for change!
Yes, you can choose to have a good attitude for a bad job for some time. But you do wrong, and it will not last long.
P is perfect for: Passion
What you are really passionate about? Can you identify the types of vocational training in your passions? Do not let the negativity defeat your creativity.
What do you most often think - what can you excited to your work?
What type of work makes you happy, alive and full of energy?
P is for Perfect: Perfect Day professional
Do you have a vision of your perfect day - Can you imagine living your dream while making the income you need at the same time? If you can not imagine, you can not go to it.
Writing exactly what would be ideal for you in regard to average working day to do something that can last a lifetime. Why not? Most jobs are not developed for you.
Most job search is back. Instead of trying to adapt yourself in a job, starting exactly what the perfect model of your day will be a daily plan that suits you best. This will lead you right to work. You do not need human resources for this!
P is perfect for: Present
What are you doing in the present to go to your ideal work day? Do you know the difference between your dreams and where you are now? Do you know the real reason why achieving your perfect vocational day is so important to you?
Do you have the relationships right now to support your trip?
Do you have the right people in your life to support you and fuel your trip?
Write a future biography that describes what you want your life be like in 2-3 years. You're not done until that vision you.
P is perfect for: Putting it all together (with your permission)
Have you defined and written exactly what you want? Have you talked with others?
If you follow your heart, you will become a magnet for your dreams.
Look defining moments in your life - the time when you are saying "enough is enough!"
It may be something important as divorce, illness, layoff or a financial crisis. It may be simply a realization that these faceless bosses, meetings and documents are getting in the way of an authentic life. Most jobs would not be done if people are not paid to do.
Only you can find and do the work that matters most to you.
I think this could be just the right time for you to start!
I will encourage you as a go-Craig Nathanson
About the author
Craig Nathanson is the author of P is for Perfect: Your Perfect Day and a vocational training expert who works with more than forty people. Craig the new E-book, discover and live your passion 365 days a year is a workshop in a box designed to help busy adults go insane with their work. Craig systematic approach, the trademark "Ten P" process''helps people to free themselves and move forward the work they love. Visit Craig online community at http://www.thevocationalcoach.com where you can take a class, get more ideas through Craig Nathanson books and CD's, get some private coaching by phone or read other stories from mid - life-change and renewal.
Craig lives in Fairfax, California. His office is located at 6 School Street, Suite 220, Fairfax, Ca 94930. You can reach him at 415-457-0550 or craig@thevocationalcoach.com.
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